He's just not that into you

This story just..got so many lesson to be learned. n one thing for sure..what men says are not representing what they really mean. Bear in mind!

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending.

 Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave.

 And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future.

Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment.. you never gave up hope.

If a guy doesn't call you, he doesn't want to call you

What if you meet the love of your life, are you supposed to let them pass you by? ..even if he's married???

Don't get too choosy even if you are really hot. Cause you might end up living alone..still looking for the best.

Ok, Ok. Exhibit A. Chad the drummer who lived in a storage space. He only used me for rides and yet I continued to stalk him for most of 1998. Then oh, um, there was Don, that broke up with me every Friday so that he could have his weekends free. I was delusional about that relationship. I used to refer to him as my husband to random people, like my dental hygienist. Anyway, all my friends used to tell me about how things might work out with these dipsticks because they knew someone, who knew someone, who dated a dipstick just like mine. That girl ended up getting married and living happily ever after. That the exception and we're not the exception we're the rule.

I may dissect each little thing and put myself out there so much but at least that means that I still care. Oh! You've think you won because women are expendable to you. You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way but you don't fall in love that way either. You have not won. You're alone. I may do a lot of stupid shit but I'm still a lot closer to love than you are.

I don't wanna be with anybody else, I just wanna be with Beth.

That's it!! The rule is you are looking for the best. I want you but I don't want to be the best. I just want to be the exception. Love is unconditionally right. No matter how much things you hate about him, either 7, or 10 or even hundreds, if it is love, it still love. That's why I'm still wondering..why did I ever wait for you. It is bcoz I love you!..but the question is..do you really love me? Am I your exceptional?

p/s: Women often misunderstood what a man do to them. Most of them doing things to make it look like they do like us whereas actually they don't. Sometimes we actually HAVE these thoughts that this guy is not in love with us, but we often ignore it. We want to believe that they really do in love with us, but they don't. So alert with the signs. Don't regret it later. There's no 'happily ever after' in real life.